What do u think about your close friends talking/being friends with your ex's?

Im talking about the kind of exs that u had a really bad past with, horrible break up, they hurt u kinda thing. I think that if they were friends before you guys went out then its fine, but if they only started talking because u two were going out i think its kinda unfair if they still talk, especially if the guy/girl really hurt you. What i also hate is when your freidn CONTINUES to talk about your ex with you like "hes so funny he did this/said that" like if ur gonna be friends with him sitill can u NOT talk about him with me?

Gosh. Just had to let it out.

 It's jacked up for that to happen. Period.  Your real friends wouldn't do that to you...on the other hand friends do make mistakes sometimes and they might get jealous of you.  Just be calm and don't do anything stupid about it.  If your friendship is good don't ruin it over someone you dumped or broke up with.  There's probably a good reason you broke up and you shouldn't continue being depressed by ruining a friendship.

yeah i never say anything to them.. just everytime she brings him up im like "ew..can we not talk about him" or something like that but she alwaysss brings him up again later its really annoying.

Its weird and sorta scandulous. It depends. If the friend didn't know your ex until you were dating the ex than its sketch. People don't usually keep in touch with their good friend's Exes without impure intentions.

taking into consideration that I killed her, I dont think they can be friends.

i dont like it when this happens at all...i would just sit down with your friend and have a non-dramatic/angry talk and just ask that if she could at least be respectful enough not to talk about him

if ur friends reallly ur friend they woudlnt do that.....but again it dependssss on the situation....

im just gonna assume that your friends are persian...

if they are... whoever is doing that to you are trying to hurt you. all in all, persians (especially girls) ...well 90% of them are horrible friends. maybe ive had shitty experiences, but ive never had a GOOD persian girlfriend.

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miskeesss...

dont worry, we can be good persian friendsss ;D

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miskees shes actually not persian loll and this girls actually a good firend i jsut really dont think she understands how much it bothers me:S ..but the next time it happens im just gonna tell her straight up that it bothers me and if she cant stop talking to him..then just dont talk about him with me.

sounds like a good idea. Unfortunatly, many people are ignorant in this world and do not realize something bothers another. good luck!

lol... well white girls are just dumb. if you tell her she'll listen to you.

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I have no problem at all with friends talking ot EX's, unless I'm still somewhat involved with the girl. I had a friend have sex with an ex of mine 3 days after we broke up, but I didn't really care because once I break up with a girl, I stop caring about them.....and I also don't cock block friends (bro code).

Life's too short to care about petty shit like this.

ridam ru ex's. bikhialeshoon. they are ex';s for reason, RIGHT???????